Relationship Inventory

Take Time to Talk Intimately with Your Partner

Relationship Satisfaction Inventory

Happy CoupleFill out this inven­to­ry and give it to your part­ner to do the same. Then set aside some time to com­pare and talk about how each of you has rat­ed each cat­e­go­ry. Look for the strengths in your rela­tion­ship as well as iden­ti­fy the areas that could be enhanced, to make this the kind of rela­tion­ship you would like it to be. Set a goal togeth­er to make this hap­pen.

On a scale of 1 to 10, with 1 being very unsat­is­fied and 10 being very sat­is­fied, rate each of the fol­low­ing:

  • Communication skills
  • Creative use of conflict/crisis
  • Common goals and val­ues … what are they?
  • Agreement on gen­der roles
  • Cooperation and team­work
  • Sexual ful­fill­ment
  • Money man­age­ment
  • Commitment to growth, yours and the rela­tion­ship
  • Giving and receiv­ing appre­ci­a­tion and affec­tion
  • Time togeth­er
  • Family mat­ters … par­ents, in‐laws, chil­dren
  • Decision mak­ing skills